toy theorypicture yourself as a kid who jus received a new toy. u're happy and excited. u play with it every now and then. so very amazed by this new addition. but after awhile, say days/weeks/months, u get bored of it alrdy. den u chuck it aside.
maybe a few months later, u discovered it buried deep inside your toy box. ur interest in this toy grows again. u play with it often again. but jus like before, u get bored of it after a while and u dump it one corner.
now. picture urself as urself. substitute the toy with other objects (maybe a cellphone, some game or some hobby; or maybe even somebody). see the similarities now?
this is only human. most of the times we're the kid, but in unfortunate circumstances, one might just be that fateful little toy. one moment you're enjoying the attention, having loads of fun with the kid. but the next, u're just a forgotten piece of plastic buried deep inside the deep dark toy box.
realisation.